If you want some super cute, short ponytails, Nightcrawler's Biscuit Hair is my favorite and I'd use it if I weren't into Maxis Match (MM is the term for clay hair and other CC which follows EA's style.) There are also some Simmers who create a Maxis Mix (like a mix of Maxis Match and Alpha) which has more strands and other details to combine the two styles but you may not like it as much. You'll have to look at some and decide what works best for you. Alpha hair closely resembles Sims 3 hair if that helps. There are also alpha clothes, alpha eyebrows, and alpha shoes. There's even a foot replacement mod that has better details and definition when a Sim goes barefoot. (There are also mods for genitals if you want to go that extra mile.) If all of that sounds overwhelming, my initial recommendation is to look up Kijiko's 3D Eyelashes and Cien's EA Eyelash Removal Mod for more realistic eyelashes (but a lot of people have made eyelashes too Kijiko's are just the most well-known, and they're frequently updated.) If I could only have a very limited number of CC, I'd be sad, but that'd be my top pick because the one thing I hate and simply can't stand is the blocky eyelashes.

I would strongly recommend getting custom body sliders and various presets too as these can give you more and better variation while sculpting a Sim's face and body. VibrantPixels, Obscurus, HellFrozeOver, StretchSkeleton, Faaeish, Luumia, and Miiko have a bunch of options, others have a few.

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